“A kiss is the contraction of mouth due to the expansion ofthe heart.”
Secret Benefits of Kissing
When you kiss your sweetie this Valentine's Day, you arepracticing a nonverbal interaction that takes place in over 90 percent of humancultures.
Research shows that kissing or if you prefer the scientific term Osculation, is often the deciding factor in selecting asexual partner as well as first “kiss or miss” determiner of selecting a lifepartner, especially for women. Kissing evolved to stimulate all three distinct brainsystems involved in mating and reproduction those that involve sex drive,romantic love, and attachment. In fact more of your brain lights up duringkissing than it does for other later romantic activity. Sex drive compels us toseek partners, romantic love tells us to commit to one, and attachment helps ustolerate this person (at least long enough to have a child). · Kissingis a stress reliever. Researchers found that in long term relationships themore the couple kissed the more their stress hormone cortisol levels declined. · Kissingis good for your health. According to the Kinsey Institute New Report on Sex; apassionate kiss burns 6.4 calories per minute. (And it is a lot more fun thanjogging on a treadmill that burns not much more: 11.2 calories per minute.) · Whywomen kiss before they say, “I do.” Studies reveal many women use informationthey gain through kissing to decide on a mate. Because a woman tends to beattracted to male partners with a different immune system makeup from her ownand she detects this information through smell when they kiss. · Havea great first kiss or else. A bad first kiss can kill a would-be romance fasterthan a woman can reapply her lipstick. In a S.U.N.Y. of Albany survey, a highernumber of women than men said they would not have sex with a poor kisser andmore than 69 percent of women say they would end the relationship if the firstkiss with their partner was bad. · Akiss is the best “On” button. Women arestimulated faster by kissing than any other physical activity to prompt them towant to engage in sex. Yes you read that right. · Kissingcan improve your immune system by building anti-bodies to foreign bacteria.Don't worry; about 95% of your partner's bacteria is probably friendly andfamiliar to your own body already. · Womenlike kissing before, during, and after sex. Men use it to get sex then they aremore likely to go to sleep. · Frenchkiss for workout - A simple pucker kiss takes only two muscles, but all 34 ofyour facial muscles get a workout during a deep French kiss. · Menlike French kissing for a reason - Research shows that men show a preferencefor French kissing. Scientist explains this preference. Wet, open-mouthedkisses allow men to dose women with small amounts of libido-raisingtestosterone via their saliva. Over time, weeks or months of this dosingincrease her testosterone which can enhance her libido. · MoreKissing More Fun- Testosterone doping can explain why if you stop kissingbefore you make love a woman’s libido may go down. This should be greatmotivation to kiss and kiss again. · Whathe thinks and she thinks about during kissing – Because of the chemical andbrain differences in genders research suggests that when a woman kisses a manhe thinks, “Oh boy we are going to get more physically close.” And when a mankisses a women she thinks, “Oh boy, we are getting more emotionally close.”
Patti Wood, MA, Certified Speaking Professional - The Body Language Expert. For more body language insights go to her website at www.PattiWood.net. Check out Patti's website for her new book "SNAP, Making the Most of First Impressions, Body Language and Charisma" at www.snapfirstimpressions.com. Also check out Patti's YouTube channel at http://youtube.com/user/bodylanguageexpert.
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